Oh, what a difference a couple of days make. We have seen another side to Colby. While he is skittish, shy, won't come to you when called, is a nervous eater, he can also be a dickens. He learned or joined in with Jax my cocker in chasing the cats. I did bring my friendly cat, Coulter, down and sat him on my lap and Colby licked and sniffed but when Coulter rubbed up against his face he wasn't sure what to do. He will bark at them and chase, but not sure what he would actually do. Thus unless you have a very dog savvy cat, I'd say a home with no cats would be best.
Colby met Lake the lab from next door by accident. Lake came over with his owner and came into the kitchen. The boys were on the deck and the screen was open so they came a running. But the meet 'n greet went just fine. Lake has been around all my foster dogs so is submissive and easy to bring into the picture.
Colby is a contradiction in that he can be submissive, play nicely, but once he has something, a toy, chew bone, ball, etc. he lets it be known he is not going to give it up. He got a ball and went and laid on one of the dog beds. Jax, my cocker, went over and stood in front of him waiting for Colby to drop the ball (he's any only child you know). Colby growled to let Jax know it wasn't gonna happen, but Jax being Jax just stood there, duh! So a few more growls, a little snap and he picks the ball up, gets up and walks around the couch and comes right back to the dog bed and lays down and Jax continues to stand and stare. Colby kept the ball. The first night I let Colby up on the couch cuz he jumped up. He was cuddling and all was fine until Dodger 10-185 came over for some attention. Colby got very snarky and so I made him get off. We tried it a couple more times, and finally I decided if he couldn't be nice he was not allowed to be up on the couch by me. If Colby is laying by the couch and Dodger 10-185 comes over to lay next to him, he will growl at him, and visa versa when roles are reversed. I simply tell them NO and be nice and it's fine. I think Colby was low man on the totem pole and now at almost 2, he is flexing his muscles. He will get snarky with both the dogs, which tells me he should not be with a dominant dog. A female may very well make a better companion, but I think he may need that sibling to show him things are ok with the humans and eventually that he will always have toys and to share.
While he can be assertive with the dogs, he is very skittish with us. If you are standing and call him, he won't come. If you are sitting down and let him come when he wants, he's fine. When I am loving up Dodger and Jax he will usually come and join in then. He really likes my husband so I question if he was hurt or abused by a man which was the vets first reaction. He will come for his pill in peanut butter, but then when I try to get him to come for his eye drops....no deal. I either have to wait until he's in a corner or sit and wait for him to come to me. If you have something in your hand and he sees it he will cower and slink away. We are very careful to speak gently with him and not push him. He is funny about eating in the sense he watches Dodger, and so I have found that having them in the same area and not watching him, he will eat without being so nervous.
Colby doesn't really know any commands. We try to get him to come when called and he may do it 25% of the time if you are sitting. He is very nervous about coming close to get a treat, but is figuring out it's a good thing. He loves to lick you, any part he can get at when he's excited, and then he tries to get up on you, so we are working on breaking him of these things and let him know he can come and be petted but must stand or sit nicely. I have needed a shower a couple times after laying on the couch and Colby giving me one of his licking baths. But I have also figured out sometimes that's his way of telling you he has to go out. He's a special soul that will need time to learn to feel safe. The biggest thing I have learned about Colby is that when you take him out to potty you need to encourage him to go and not let him in until he does. You also need that sixth sense about making him stay out til he poops. He does take his sweet time finding just the right place. When he's done I always praise him and call him to come in, which unlike in the house, he comes running. At first he was afraid to go in and out of the doors, but has gotten past that fear.
Colby had a poop accident and I believe it was my fault. I was laying on the couch and he kept coming over and licking at me and trying to get up on the couch by me. When I finally got up after he had settled down there was a present for me behind the couch. My fault, and thus the feeling that if you don't get him out in a timely manner, he will get excited and lick you and get jumpy. Other than that he has not messed at all. He was fine at home today, and proved he could be free. Dodger pushed the baby gate out enough so they could get to the family room and upstairs, but nothing was chewed and no potty surprises. They were good boys, which also explained why they didn't come when I got home and called for them to come and go outside. But he was happy to see me and jumped and carried on. Based on his actions and personality a home with small children would be too much excitement for him, but older dog savvy kids would be fine. Another fur sibling would good as he is rather dependent on Dodger and I feel another dog would be helpful with the transition into a better life and learning to trust humans.
I have often have thought how wonderful it would be if these dogs could tell us what their life was like and what we could do to make it better. I do know that dogs like Colby need someone with patience that will let him come out at his pace, that will take him to obedience to learn, socialize and bond with his human, and that he be loved and made to feel safe. He's had enough hardship in his life and now he needs to live the golden life. And in just a couple of days he has moved to the bedroom and sleeps on one of the dog beds and is quiet all night. What a sweetheart.
If you are an approved applicant and feel you could give Colby the golden life, please contact your placement advisor. This sweet little 55 lb minx is just waiting to be loved and learn to enjoy life. Stay tuned for updates. And no, he didn't like his bath outside and when I got done with him he promptly went and laid in the area that was all mud. Ah well, a quick rinse and all was fine.
Foster Mom and the crew.

Not happy about the bath

Aah...yep, that's the spot

Look into my eyes

Colby, meet Lake

Brotherly love

#2 in line

Jax won't find me

Buddies