As you can see by the pictures, Lake the lab was over this weekend and fun was had by all....except for the stuffed toy that Lake and Max 08-136 had a tug with. It was fun to watch Jake get in there and play tug and chase around. He is so sweet, he has reached his ideal weight, his coat is starting to shine.....and he has not displayed any more Cujo traits:)
Today I bathed, clipped and cleaned ears on Jake. He stood still while I sprayed him down and shampoo'd him. No problem with the nail cutting but not real thrilled with the ear cleaning. Nary a lip curl, growl or snap. Later while we were loading the doggie mobile all the dogs jumped in. Jake did not have his collar back on and there he sat wet on MY seat. I reached for him.....nothing. So I went in and got a slip lead, put in on and out he jumped. Progress!!! What a good boy!!
The reason for the bathing and loading up of the van was because due to health issues on my part, I had to make a very tough decision. Big Jake and foster brother Sammy 07-690 were moved to a new foster home. The very wonderful and awesome news is that they went to the same foster. That helped me to swallow this bitter pill a little bit easier. No matter what the dog issues have been, I have never relinquished a foster, not even after 8 months and some serious issues. But I don't have the energy to continue fostering 3 dogs right now. This has been a very painful decison, made only more bearable by the fact that I knew the boys would be with a Foster Mom that worked from home the majority of the time, has 2 goldens of her own and she was willing to commit to Sammy, which could be months, and that's a commitment for anyone. It shows her dedication and what she's willing to do for the boys.
It is like leaving your children, even though you have written everything down that you can think of, you are sure no one will care for and love them like you. And they don't. They do it their way, and they love them in their own way. They say dogs live in the moment.....perhaps....but my moment of leaving was very difficult. I tried not to cry and let my emotions set the tone for the boys. That didn't happen.....I was crying before I left and it broke my heart to see Jake and Sam come to the gate and look at me like....'hey mom you forgot us'. I cried all the way home...and then some. Only later when Jake's new Foster Mom called to tell me they were doing fine, did I relax and allow myself to believe they would continue to flourish and make strides. I am hoping that with Jake in the metro area, and new updates from a fresh new persepctive, someone will realize what a wonderful family member this guy could be and will ask to meet him. Though new Foster Mom says, not too soon. She may change her mind with 4 dogs full time:)
I am so very, very, very grateful to this wonderful young woman who has opened her heart and home to Big Jake and Sammy. I know she will give them all they need and help Jake to continue to feel secure and loved. After all that's what we all want....just to be loved. So thank you for taking my boys and letting me know I am welcomed any time to see Big Jake. I am sure your boys will keep him busy and enjoying the great fenced in yard.
So Big Jake, tonight you and your foster brother will sleep in a new home and possibly a new bed:) I will be waiting to hear how your first night went and how many sloppy kisses you delivered and what early hour you got the whole crew up. Enjoy your new foster family and know I will miss you tonight....and tomorrow.....and know you are loved.
Be a good boy...........
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Jake came to visit me last week to see how he would do. He has never been separated from his family, never in another truck, car etc with anyone else etc etc. Upon getting home I made the mistake of taking his Gentle Leader and leash off and telling him to get out of the doggie mobile. Aah let's just say he wasn't interested in doing so. After no success I returned him home. Gave it a couple days, got him again and left the leash on, out he popped when we arrived. So yesterday I made the decision to have him over again and keep him. His family had to move out of their house and so Jake would have had to stay out in his kennel and they would have to come and feed him and check on him. So it was an easy choice last night to decide to officially bring him in. After making that decision I decided it was bath time, nail trimming and brushing time. Since it was all new and I had discovered when frightened he will lay down, raise a leg to be submissive, but can get growly. So I put on the infamous Italian basket weave muzzle and proceeded with the spa treatment. All went fine. He does NOT like the hose, but did well. 












