I met Miss Molly with her previous foster mom at the RAGOM PetCo event in Apple Valley yesterday and immediately fell in love with her. We thought it might be best to try separating her from her brother, Jake, in order to help her overcome her shyness and to more readily find her a forever home. She is a graceful, slender girl with a reddish coat and beautiful eyes. Molly definitely lives up to her reputation of being timid and easily startled, but she has already loosened up a bit after being here only one day.
When I brought her home yesterday afternoon, she was very reluctant to come in the house. The strategy I first tried was to prop the door open and lay a trail of treats for her to follow into the house. Then I let my Daisy (resident dog) join her, hoping that Daisy coming in and out of the door would be encouraging to her, since she seemed to really like her. But, after about 25 minutes and the loss of most of the heat in the house, I decided that I had to take a more proactive approach. I had to corner her so I could pick her up. Normally I would never recommend this approach to anyone with a new dog. Many dogs could panic when backed into a corner and lash out in fear and self-defense, but I knew that Molly had already bonded with me a bit at PetCo and in the car so I took a chance and walked slowly and reassuringly up to her until I could wrap my arms around her, carry her into the living room, and sit down with her on the couch. It worked just fine...
...and there we sat, with her on my lap for the rest of the afternoon. She is so sweet and cuddly! She has a lot of trouble trusting new environments, so I just stayed curled up with her to let her get comfortable. Little did I know that she would take that spot on the couch as her safe place, never getting down the rest of the evening. When it was time to go outside before bed, I almost couldn't get her down off the couch, but I took a piece of advice from her previous foster mom and hooked her leash up to her collar and voila, she came with me to the back door and walked right outside. I kept her on the leash to potty, even though my back yard is completely fenced in, because she just seems more confident when she has her leash on.
At bedtime I led her upstairs with her leash and at my suggestion, she jumped right up on the bed. She definitely likes soft, cushy places - preferably with a human by her side. She slept right next to me all night with no problems. This morning I just put her leash back on and she jumped off the bed and went right outside like a champ. I was so proud of her! But when we came back inside for breakfast, she disappeared. Wouldn't you know, I found her back upstairs on the bed. So now she has two safe places. (-: (The picture below is of Molly in her safe place #1 - the couch.)
Throughout the day today she has gradually become more trusting and is now going outside with Daisy without me having to take her out on the leash and this afternoon she was even engaging in a little bit of gentle play with Daisy in the yard. I have a feeling that by the end of the week, she'll be feeling right at home.
Miss Molly will definitely need a forever home with very patient parents who have a lot of time to earn her trust and reassure her when she gets nervous. She might do OK as an only dog because she definitely likes being the recipient of all the affection and attention, but it would probably be better if she had another dog to help teach her to trust and play. I know that for sure, she would not be able to handle the sudden movements and noises of young children, but middle and high school kids would be great for giving her a lot of attention and love.
I'll write more after she gets more settled in and I get to know her better. If you are interested in adopting Molly, please email placement
ragom [dot] org.





